What To Do On Valentines Day For Both Couples and Singles
Who doesn’t love Valentines Day? Love is in the air and couples are showing their favorite person off to the world. On this day, people show how much they love their significant other by displaying multiple love languages to their partner.
However, there are some who view Valentines Day as a bit of a lonely day for them. While most will be celebrating with someone they love, others are left to live vicariously through their friends on social media and patently wait for their turn to be “relationship goals.”
What To Do On Valentines Day For Both Couples and Singles
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be lonely if you’re single. Even though Valentine’s Day is mostly celebrated amongst couples where they exchange gifts like flowers, an adorable teddy bear, cards or maybe a kiss, it can be celebrated by single people as well.
Some people celebrate what is now called, Galentine’s Day and Malentine’s Day. Galentine’s Day is celebrated on February 13th as a day of celebration for women to get together and enjoy spa treatments, dinners, wine tasting, or whatever is enjoyable for them. Malentine’s Day is celebrated on the 12th of February. It is a day for men to meet up and celebrate amongst each other playing video games watching/attending sporting events, clubs etc.
Detroit has a lot to offer for singles and couples for Valentine’s Day. There is more to do than you might expect. So instead of moping around and sitting at home in front of the TV in your robe, you can enjoy some of these events taking place around the city.
The Raw Space
If you are ready for a new love in your life, you might want to try Speed Dating. This Wednesday, (Feb. 14th), from 4pm-7:30pm The Raw Space, located on 8420 West McNichols Road in Detroit will he having an event for people who are trying to find their new soul-mate.
Sassy and Sensational Anti-Valentine’s/Galentine’s Day Cocktail Class
Not into speed dating why not celebrate Galentines Day with some cocktails and laughter? Sassy and Sensational Anti-Valentine Class is all about breaking the rules and toasting to independence! Whether you are with friends or by yourself, go there and have a blast.
The Valentine’s Day Pop Up
Vixen’s on Bagley is having a Valentine’s Day Pop Up in Southwest Detroit. This event will feature seasonal drinks and Valentine’s Day decorations. They will serve themed drinks such as Cupid’s Cosmo and Punch Drunk Love. They will also have featured beers such as Two Hearted IPA or hot chocolate with whipped cream or topped off with a boozy shot.
Valentine’s Day Surf and Turf Cooking Class
If you are a fan of surf and turf then this is the date for you. This is the perfect date night experience for foodie couples or friends! during this event couple will learn to cook luxurious meal like pan seared scallops, rosemary garlic rib-eye, truffle mashed potatoes and chocolate ganache cake. You are encouraged to bring your own wine as well as your appetite to Eastern Market’s Shed 5 this Wednesday. Tickets are $92 per person or $180 for two. The event is from 5pm-7pm.
Cupid’s Bar Crawl
Whether you’re single, taken, or out with friends, Cupid’s Bar Crawl is for everyone who loves to just have a good time. So pull out your best pink and red outfit and make your way to GREEKTOWN. The meeting place is at the Exodus Lounge Rooftop, 529 Monroe Street. The next stops are: Bar Humbug, Delux Lounge and Bakalikon, where you can try The Love Potion, Candy Heart shots, and great deals on beers and other drinks. Tickets are $15-$35 at allevents.in. This event is from 6:00PM-10:00PM on Saturday, February 17.
There are many things to do this Valentines day in the city so get out and enjoy them, single or not.
Common Valentine's Day Mistakes to Avoid
Buying a last minute gift
Having no plans, even with good intentions, can make you seem inconsiderate and unmotivated. While it’s tempting to resort to last-minute convenience-store flowers or a generic box of chocolates, your partner likely knows you’re more creative. Avoid scrambling to find the perfect last-minute Valentine’s Day gifts. Instead, have a plan in place, making your partner feel valued with the thought you put into it ahead of time.
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Not making reservations
Valentine’s Day is a peak time for restaurants, spas, and getaways, so avoid waiting until the eleventh hour to snag your spot. Many places fill up weeks or even months before the big day. According to Taste of Home, it’s wise to plan and secure a reservation five to six weeks in advance. Mark it on your calendar to avoid any slip-ups. If you realize you forgot, try calling around to see if any restaurants have last-minute openings, or opt for a cozy romantic dinner at home.
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Not discussing a budget
Surprises are great, but when you gift your partner chocolate and roses and they surprise you with a trip to Hawaii or a new car, it can be a bit awkward. Although it’s uncommon to have such a huge difference in gift budgets, having a quick chat before Valentine’s Day can be beneficial. Set some guidelines. Maybe agree on a small budget, like under $20, or consider pooling funds for a more extravagant joint experience.
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Ignoring preferences
People often make the mistake of organizing Valentine’s Day based on their preferences rather than considering what their partner likes. Avoid overlooking your partner’s wishes or desires for the day. If your significant other prefers a cozy night at home over a fancy dinner, make sure your plans align with their preferences.
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Skipping it all together
Even if you’re not a big fan of Valentine’s Day, your partner might be a total romantic, so don’t act like it’s just any regular day. You don’t have to pull off a huge, fancy gesture every time, but completely ignoring it can be hurtful. Making a little effort shows you care. Complaining about the day doesn’t help either. Some people see Valentine’s Day as a bit commercial, but pointing that out or making excuses to ignore it might disappoint your partner. Griping about putting effort into the day can quickly spoil anything special you decide to do for them.
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